An Unwanted Guest
When you came to live with me
You brought an unwanted guest
He took over both our lives
To the point you had to leave
Now I visit you … and he’s
Still there ruling over you
No longer a tenant but
A landlord demanding rent
And we pay him with our lives
His name is Dementia
Ken Chawkin
June 19, 2010
Fairfield, Iowa
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The Curse of Dementia: On watching a loved one diminish before your eyes, poem by Ken Chawkin
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July 1, 2010 at 9:49 am |
Dear Ken,
Loud, clear and powerful! My father too has a little of this unwanted guest!
JGD
Chris
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July 1, 2010 at 12:07 pm |
Dear Chris,
Thank you for this feedback. Much appreciated. I was told to share that poem with others who might be in a similar situation. We’re all paying our dues, one way or another. All we really have is our Self, really, in the long run. We leave the rest behind and move on to something better.
JGD
Ken
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